When Will My Ex Call Me Back?
Do you find yourself asking How can I make my ex call me back? more than you ask yourself any other question these days? Does he ignore your messages and never call back? Do you beg, plead and cry into his answering machine hoping he will finally give in and give you a ring?
Maybe you are trying too hard. The best thing you can do right now is give yourself a break. Step back, relax, leave town for a few days, and devote some time to finding out exactly what you expect or want from your ex. There is a good strategy for getting him to return your call, but if you are not ready with a step by step plan the whole thing will end in disaster. Again.
There is a seemingly magic formula that almost works as well as casting a spell to make your ex want to return your phone call, but until you know exactly what you are doing, do not do anything at all. Instead, start by asking yourself a few questions and be completely honest with your answers?
- Why do I want him to call me back? Do I just need to organize the kids’ carpools, or am I hoping for something more?
- Am I secretly hoping to get my ex back?
- Was our old relationship so wonderful that it is really not best to just let it go?
- What special things did I love about him?
- What things did he love about me?
- Did he ever hit me or threaten me with physical abuse? Hint: If the answer to this one is “yes”, even one time, DO NOT try to get him back. Do not call him. Walk away and start a new life. You don’t deserve abuse.
If you have answered all those questions honestly and still want him to call you back, then there are concrete steps you can take in formulating a plan that will put you on the right track. It is all set forth in a little book called The Magic of Making Up, which you really need to get your hands on before you set forth on your own to get your ex back (or to just get him to call you back so you can find out where he left the can opener).
The Magic of Making Up is not simply a book. It is a whole system for repairing damaged relationships (or keeping them healthy to begin with) created by a down to earth guy named T.W. Jackson. T.W. doesn’t have a PhD or any other sheepskins hanging on his wall — but he knows people and relationships and has helped over ten thousand people around the world keep their relationships healthy.
In a nutshell, the strategy for getting your ex to call you back is simple: Don’t beg, don’t lie. Appeal to his self interest and stir up his curiosity. If you handle things right, you will have him calling you back and practically thinking it was his own idea to call you. This short article can’t cover the whole plan, so you must read the book first in order to make sure you do nothing to cause further damage to your relationship. If you don’t plan ahead, he might return your call and catch you unprepared for what to do next.
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Feb 27th, 2009
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