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How to Flirt with Men Successfully
Successfully flirting with men is more complicated than it may first appear to be. Excessive attention paid to males may lead them to think you aren’t worth the attention from them. When you play hard it get, you may discourage guys who lack the confidence to keep trying with women who won’t give them the time of day. In order to lie in a bed of roses after flirting just dance ‘cha-cha’ : two steps forward and one step back. When you want to flirt with a man it is extremely important to incorporate touching of some kind into the process. Let men make the first step, that the first rule in flirting.
Walk towards them in the bar and give them eye contact. Lean nearby or reach across them to pickup a napkin or a drink. If they don’t quite get the hint, ask them something that requires a lengthier answer. Is your first time here?’ or ‘Hi, I’m…’ are the most used inviting lines. Instead, ask them a question that throws them off guard and makes you look like an interesting person. Tell them you have a friend in town and you need to know the best place for sushi or bowling. Inquire whether they mind if you take a stab at what their job is by what they are wearing.
Alternately, you could tell them you are great at guessing people’s names from their appearance. When they ask you for personal information, play coy. This is one of my best kept flirting secrets that works extremely well. Keep a clear conversation without trying to see similarities were they are not. If you’re flirting with a guy who didn’t come alone, just wait for him to come back later. He will speak with his guy friends about you and this will give him more confidence to move the flirtation forward.
Remember that you cannot control his own abilities, but you can make him comfortable if he needs more confidence or you can make it more of a challenge if he is a natural. And always remember what is most important to put on display: Your personality By flirting the right way you can literally make any man want you – even if they were not interested previously.
Tags: Dating, flirt, make contact, men, shyness, women
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Dec 28th, 2008