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Is Saving A Relationship Worth It?

Maybe, you won’t need to ask how to win your ex back. Relationships will always have their uos and downs and their troublesome patches, but if you have had a particularly elongated rough patch then you may be considering if it is worth saving. You may have gone to marriage counseling and sought ways to bring back the love. You may have worked at getting the love back but then found out down the road that the problems resurfaced. You may have experienced struggles in your dating life. You sought advice from friends and got some good tips but the problems persist. Do want to be asking how to “get back with my ex” in the future?

Make a list of the people you most like to spend some time with. Is your spouse or partner on that list? Do you really enjoy spending time together? When was the last time you went out and just had fun? Is it possible for the two of you to do that? Are you happy in their company? A good relationship between two people is going to be one where they can enjoy being together or can feel content just having the person there.

Another very important thing to consider when you are deciding if this relationship is worth saving is do they make you feel like you are understood. Do you listen when your spouse talks?? Do you feel like you are being listened to and that they understand you? Spend some time and try to see if they do.

A relationship is supposed to be a place where you can go when you need comforted. Does this relationship help you feel better when things are going bad for you? Is the relationship something that you constantly need comforted about? Perhaps you are creating a problem by looking for comfort in another place.

If there are questions about faithfulness or infidelity, they need to be addressed. Are you able to trust them? Can they put trust in you? If you have a problem answering either one of those questions affirmatively, perhaps you should get some proper counseling or therapy. You can get that from The Magic of Making Up.

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Filed under Conflict : Comments (0) : Feb 20th, 2009