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”Winning back your ex” VS ”Healing a broken heart”

Where ever we go we see love. You can’t escape it, it’s as if everything is saturated in it. Whenever you turn on the TV you will see a show about love. There will always be another Dr.Phil giving a relationship advice or another desperate house wife cheating on her husband before the big breakup.

Books are no different.

The romantic section is probably one of the biggest ones and titles like how to get your ex back are readily available. Entertainment publications, talk about about celebrities. They publish information about celebrity breakups and cheating.

 

It’s so evident that it’s not even worth mentioning. We are clearly preoccupied by romance.

Even though it sounds bad, I think it’s a great thing.

Especially in countries like Canada and Russia.

That’s because their number of citizens is slowly going down. There, a lot of people are more preoccupied with their careers and less with the family.

T.V praises money and riches and pays less attention to love.

It’s not to say that there are no “love” shows in those countries. But I think media should concentrate less on the drama and more on the positive. They show cheating adventures of a husband as if it was the norm. Why not show a faithful husband that comes home to spend time with his kids. We see the same trend in printed media. There are now more and more books that explain how to get over a bad breakup. Why is it so hard to find a book that will explain how to fix a relationship and help you get your lover back after a bad breakup? In my humble opinion those things will do more good than harm.

 

Southern parts of the U.S have staggering separation rates (1 in 3 separate. This is too much. It’s as if people decide to jump the ship and shop elsewhere too quickly. What about the promise: “till death do us apart”? If the wife is cheating it does not mean the husband needs to breakup right away. This act of betrayal, must have been provoked by something. Is it something that husband did not do? Could it be a minor change in the way the couple communicated? I think the 80 / 20 rule applies here too, where as 80 percent of the difference is caused by 20 percent of change. It’s been said that the top reason why wives go to look elsewhere is the lack of recognition.

So let’s appreciate each other more. Let’s look beyond things that differentiate us and concentrate on things that unite us. Let’s be tolerant to each other. We can choose the feelings of fondness instead of anger. For we shall pass here but once.

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