Making Up Fast With This Technique

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The reason relationships end can be grouped into three categories.  You wronged your ex, they wronged you, or relationship drift.  This article deals with the first two reasons.  You can learn more about getting ex back here. 

If, for example, your ex cheated on you or you cheated on them, there is a very important strategy you can use to get them back that can work in hours instead of weeks or months.  This strategy is called venting.  Venting is when you or someone else gets things off their chest.  What does this have to do with getting your ex back fast?

Because their good feelings towards you have now been replaced by bad ones.  Hurt, anger, sadness.  That’s obvious.  So the question becomes, how can you help them to release those negative feelings besides wait six months to see if they get over it?  Is there a way to speed up the process of resolving negative feelings?

The way to resolve bad feelings fast is to vent them.  To get them off one’s chest.  If they cheated on you, you need to vent to them.  If you cheated on your ex, they have some negative feelings they will drag around for a long time unless you help them to vent.  To oversimplify, you call them up and ask them how they feel about what you did to them.  Then be silent and let them put their emotions into words and start getting them off their chest.  You can get a complete system for Get Ex Back Fast here that goes into detail.

Look at it like a balloon filling with the hot air of negative feelings.  You want to prick the balloon by inviting your ex to vent.  It’s not hard, but it takes a bit of practice.  You want to make them feel heard and understood.  You don’t argue or explain or defend yourself.

This same strategy works the other way if they wronged you.  If you want them back after, say, they cheated on you, you need to release your bad feelings about what they did before you can really take them back.  So you ask them to just listen and not defend while you vent.

You already know about this tool.  You’ve probably used it many times over a beer with a friend getting things off your chest about work or your personal life, for example.

Using the tool of venting to get your ex back, along with a few others, can allow you to clear the air and resolve your issues much more quickly.  Instead of waiting months hoping they get over it, you can usually get them back starting in just hours from now.  You can get a free course on How To Have Loving Marriage Help here.

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