How to find Love
Some people spend a small fortune looking to find love; others find it right in their own neighbourhood. Why are some people searching their whole lives for the same thing that other people find right next-door?
Some of the seekers of love will never find it because their expectations are way too high, so high that it would be impossible for one person to live up to them. Whereas others accept people for who they are, these people are the successful ones when it comes to looking for love.
Usually those who have set very high standards that they expect for the recipient of their affections have a false sense of their own worth. They think that they are smarter, more handsome or wittier than they really are. They don’t see themselves as other people see them.
I’m not saying that ugly men, or poor men, or short men can’t win the affections of a beautiful woman, but usually partners in life will have similarities, and then they have to be understanding of the differences if they want the relationship to survive.
When looking for love the old adage “opposites attract” does not hold water, you may be attracted to someone totally opposite of yourself but you can be sure that the attraction will eventually wear thin.
People who can see the good in people and can accept their faults will always find love, a love that will survive the difficult times. They are a pleasure to be around because you never have to worry about them always looking for your flaws.
The first step you have to take when you are looking for love is to look into yourself, search yourself, are you looking for love or are you looking for the impossible dream, a perfect, flawless person.
If you follow the advice above you will be able to find that love that you have been looking for, you may even realize that the person you have been looking for lives right next door to you, or is the person at your supermarket who has always had a big smile for you when you approach the register.
When you are lucky enough to find that one person who compliments you, who you can call your other half, don’t let that love die. You have to nurture love, you have to keep it interesting.
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Dec 11th, 2008
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