How I Divorced and Managed to Survive with my family’s help
I believed I was happy.
I was young and didn’t understand marriage. I thought about why he was with me.
Though, after a while many things came to light, the way he was using me, the lies, and lastly his cheating. It was our second year as a married couple.
Finally, in the second year I told him one day not to come home from work, I would leave the apartment giving him two weeks to move out, that is when the beginning of the end of the relationship.
Our divorce would be easy since there were no assets or children, but the emotions were difficult. All was needed was for him to take his things and leave.
Overall the actual separation would go well materialistically. Emotionally however, it will change me forever.
It was first real relationship. I had never felt closer to anyone in my life, and now I was throwing him out of my life.
It was a tough decision to make.
That’s when the desperate calls and visitations to my parent’s house started.
I couldn’t fight it, my family had to lock me in the house and take the phone away because I would go into a panic that I was throwing out the only good thing in my life. He had affected my self esteem to such an extent that I couldn’t imagine anyone ever loving me.
Finally, after lots of arguing, after many nights fighting with myself not to go through with it, we set the divorce date. Once the papers were signed, difficulties continued. Everything seemed like a dream. My brother forced me out of the house to go out with him, and I would sit and look aimlessly in one direction.
With my family’s help to keep my chin up and my brother constantly taking me out of the everyday life I was living I started to see some light.
Then I met my current boyfriend. It was the scariest experience ever. He was the total opposite of my ex. It was impossible to imagine being with anyone else.
At the time he understood what I had gone through and spoke with me about problems, feeling, and solutions.
With my family’s aid to show me he wasn’t the only person in the world to love me, and with the understanding of my current boyfriend I overcame the divorce, and gained trust back in men.
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