Divorce Should Be the Last Resort

Picture this scenario. A social gathering is available. A boy is introduced to a girl. A light conversation develops between them. They will talk for a certain amount of time and then go to their own houses after the party has ended. However, neither the boy or girl can get each other off their minds and they keep obsessing about their meeting.

The two run into each other quite by accident. Gradually they became good friends after their first date. Love slowly blossoms and the two decide to get married. As you know, these people have only seen the good side of each other, but they are sure they are meant to spend the rest of their lives together. Marriage between the two takes place with the blessings and wishes of elders and friends.

Presently, they are both ecstatic to have their privacy, as a couple. After a long, wonderful honeymoon, it’s time to go home again. Both of them have are working, have a small home and things could not have worked out better than this. They are very happy and when they look at couples that are divorced, they do not believe how bad things can end up when two people start out so much in love. As it stands now, divorce is an unfavorable word for them.

Life is full of fun, laughter and mirth and each one of them wants to please the other and there are no differences between the two and everything is hunky dory. One day, the wife returns home late from work, only to find that her husband is already home. He is upset that she is late and they have a small argument where she states that she did not say anything when he was late. Slowly but surely, the problems are solved and everthing is OK again. You find that this is just the start of it all.

As the days passed, the couple had more insinuations and more arguments over irrelevant matters Right now, the wife is pregnant and concerned about whether she will still have a career once the baby comes. The baby arrives and their world changes. As a mother’s world now focuses on caring for the little one, the father may appear to be avoiding accountability. There are more arguments everyday as the wife wants to get back to her work and a nanny is to be appointed for the baby.

As more differences between them become evident, neither of them are ready to be reasonable or accept blame. The career minded husband is not ready to share the household work and this added responsibility is difficult for the wife. Due to the parents’ lack of attention, the baby is suffering. Love seems to have flown out of the window and the couple is growing less tolerant towards each other. The only thing they would like now is a divorce and they will not consider any alternatives. Friends and well wishers try to intervene and resolve the misunderstanding but all in vain. The arising problem will be ego, an ugly reality that’s sure to interfere.

Was this all necessary? Could nothing else have worked? They would have been able to, but only if they had managed to see reason and thought with a cool head. A child is the wonderful thing that happens when two people are in love, the child should not ever have to suffer. All marriages can be saved as long as there has not been any violence or infidelity. Couples must try to ease the differences between each other, rather to look for a divorce. When all other resources have been used then and only then should divorce be brought into the conversation.

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